It’s an interesting question because I came across an article the other day, and someone was asking how they were ever going to meet someone, or even get up enough courage to look for someone, when they have $100,000.00 in debt. It could potentially take years for them to reach the income level in order to pay the debt down.
They could file for bankruptcy and start over, but that’s a hard way to enter a new relationship.
I think in all cases, you have to take a look at what the debt is for, how much they owe, and do they have the capacity to take care of it on your own, with-out having an impact on your relationship. I know it’s been said that if you truly care and love someone, and you work hard enough at whatever the situation may be, you can get through anything. This is a nice statement, but much more difficult than it sounds.
Some situations, such as having bad debt, are just like having a bad habit. Unless you decide to make a change in your life, you will continue on the same path. In some cases, a tragedy might change people too however, I have seen people have difficulties changing even if it means life or death.
What it really comes down to is what are your dreams, and aspirations?
Do they fall in line with the person you are about to marry. Usually, you are with someone long enough prior to considering marriage to determine whether or not, they have taken the right actions to change their current situation. If you can honestly say they have, then I think you are on the right path to success.
For a more personal opinion based on my own experience, check out my vid
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